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3 Easy Steps To Make Him Want You Bad

steinInsanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Albert Einstein

Yes, you can get that guy to notice you.  You can stop wondering why he doesn’t desire you.  In fact, you can become quite popular with guys but you have to stop doing what you’ve been doing since it isn’t working.

Look, in a minute, I will show you how you can easily get him to want you bad but first let me explain something.

Make Him Want You Bad by Reinvention

make him want you reinventI want you to restart and reinvent yourself  It is not as hard as you might expect since you can start with how you view yourself.  Just because he doesn’t seem to want you bad, isn’t your fault and you can do some crazy things to change this scenario.

To start making him want you, understand how men think and what they want.  It is much more simple and basic than most women think and once you understand this, you can begin to flip his desire switches one by one.  Women always have more power in relationships than men.

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Men are Hunters by Nature

Ask a trusted friend how they think you act around the guy you would like to want you.  Are you making yourself too available, are you making him feel pursued? As painful as this can be it is important to understand what vibe you give off around the men you are interested in.

Men are the hunters by nature, so when a woman is to much of a hunter a man will feel threatened and run.

On the other hand, if you are coy and play hard-to-get it will awaken the hunter in the man and make him pursue you like crazy.  Its like dangling a feather in front of a cat, they can’t help going after it.  The first step to making him obsess over you is to subtly let him know you are interested and yet remain apparently disinterested in him. THIS WILL DRIVE HIM NUTS.

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Genuinely Admire Him To Get Him To Want You Bad

Men love to be admired whereas women love to be desired.  So if you can make a man feel admired, he will be attracted to you.  The trick is to observe and discover what your man is most proud of and find ways to slip in genuine compliments.

Maybe it is his motorcycle or he may be into rebuilding cars.  Whatever it is find something about it make a genuine compliment about it.  Don’t overdo this.  Scarcity is what makes things valuable so if you drown him in compliments, this whole strategy could backfire.

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Make Him Obsessively Desire You By Being Rare

make him desire you by being rareWhat makes silver so much more precious than chrome?  Think about it, a chrome tea set will never rust or tarnish and it stays shiny with minimum effort, yet it cost a lot less than sliver. Why?

Rarity is the answer.  Sliver is very rare compared to chrome and therefore it commands a much higher price.  This is what you must become to him and hi will desire to have you more than all of the rest of the women in his life.  They may be chrome, but you are silver to him.

I am not talking about letting him see you rarely but about becoming a women that he has rarely seen and experienced.  This will make him need you like he needs to breath.  The thoughts of you will shut out the thoughts of other women and you will become his every thought.

This is not as hard as you might think.  You can see how in this video.

re-framing to make him desire youIn short if you can learn to re-frame yourself in his mind as desirable and give him genuine compliments to stroke his ego, you will find him going mad over you.  Then to really stoke his fire become something rare and precious in his sight.  It is not as hard as you might think.

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Make Who Desire You?

What Physical Features Do Women Find Most Attractive In Men?

So you want him to want you, but who is he? What does he look like?  While it is true that women are not as visual as men, they are not blind.

What physical features does a man have to have in order for you to want him to desire you.  Take our survey and see how you stack up against what other women want in a man that they hope wants them.

So, how did you stack up?  If you think you have the right guy that you want to desire you and he has all the right parts.  I invite you to read my review of Alex Carter’s book Make Him Desire You.

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2 Major Things Men are Scared of and What You Should Do About It.

There ain’t no way in a very hot place that any guy will tell you this…

capture his heartIf he knew about this article, he’d be dying to read it but there is no way he’d ever let you catch him reading it and he doesn’t want his deepest insecurity hanging out on the line like his old underwear in plain view.

Like I said, he ain’t gonna’ spill the beans…BUT I am!

First let me issue you a warning…well, maybe 2 warnings.

The 1st  warning is that these two items are not by any means a complete list of his insecurities—trust me on this one.

Secondly, I am not revealing these 2 insecurities so you can shame him or use it against him.  If you do, it’ll reveals more about your than it does about him.  I am telling you this because you can use the information to make him worship the ground you walk on.

Okay, so lets dig some dirt…

Man Insecurity #1: My physical desires are NOT normal

Now I am not about to go into the old tale about men wanting sex a lot more than women.  The fact is, both men and women like sex, but they arrive at it from totally different directions and for to satisfy different needs. Men are not just glands waiting to be expressed and sex meets a need they have that has nothing to do with popular culture’s portrayal of the subject.

Healthy sexual activity makes a man feel self-confident and boosts his ego. Women meet intimacy needs via sexual activity.

Men think about sex a lot in part because it is gushing out of every media orifice in the west.  It saturates shows, advertising, magazines and every other aspect of popular culture. There is a never-ending seduction of the male mind going on in the western world.

Inside his head, a guy is convinced that he actually obsess on sex way too much, or in perverted ways. His sex drive is hard enough to control without the constant bombardment of the media sirens. The fact that the western male can control all of this to the extent he does is actually a testament to his desire to be a decent person and how much self-control he actually does posses.

What YOU can do to help him and make him desire only you

Create a safe place for him to share his fears and thoughts with you without judgement. Help him understand that he is not just a sex-crazed zombie—unless he actually is, then RUN!

Become the star of his fantasies in as much as you are comfortable doing so. Go on a journey of discovery together. Finally, let him know when you are sexually satisfied! This is very powerful because he is wired to want to please you. Do this and he is going to become so attracted to you that he will never want to let you go. EVERY guy loves it when he can sexually satisfy a woman.

Man Insecurity #2: Other men will think I’m weak

capture his heartYou should pity the men of our western world. They need to make decent bank, make their women feel secure and desired, (quit obsessing on sex while being fed it ALL of the time), be good at sports, be on a winning team, be mentally and physically tough, overcome all the problems they face, kick ass when it comes to the bad guy, and never show tiredness or insecurity, fear, or any other weakness, only except sheer strength and confidence.

It’s a lot to live up to! It’s impossible to live up to, actually…

…And still, that’s what men feel is expected of them every single minute. If they don’t live up to the measure—actually DOMINATE it—they feel shame and self-loathing. The funny thing is that they don’t feel shame because of women as much as they do because of other men whom they mistakenly think have it all together.

What YOU can do to help him

You have the power to change this, because even more powerful than his sex drive and more coveted than beauty is a woman who is whole heatedly ON HIS SIDE. The more you show him that you admire him for who he is, warts and all, the more he will become wildly devoted to you.

Here’s what you need to answer: if your man is struggling with all of his heart on the field of life, do you show up at his games? When you do, does he register your enthusiasm and real support of him?

Relax, we are not talking literally putting your cheerleader outfit on and waving your pom-poms but there are fast and easy ways to let him know you admire him and you got his back. Just click the button below to find out.

Let him know it is safe to talk daily battles and be patient because it may take a while for him to open up. Lean in and listen as he talks, but don’t expect a lot of minute details—remember he is a guy. Don’t ask for a lot details just prompt him with questions that let him know you are on his side. Be his raving fan.

Offer really sincere admiration because guys need admiration as much as women need to be desired. Let him understand how strong you think he is, how great you think his accomplishments and abilities are. If you are sincere and communicate that to him, he will be your devoted lover for life.

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How Well Do You Know Men?

know men1. A lot of women assume men will skip over them for the super slim looking woman.

The truth is, most men think the these slim girls would look better with an extra 15 pounds or so on them.

2. Women often do not know what men desire in a woman and they mistakenly think it is solely their appearance.

The truth is, men are super attracted to women who make them feel respected and admired.  If you create these feelings in a man you will have him wrapped around your little finger.

3. Women feel like men don’t care how they look and this bothers them because it reflects poorly them.

The truth is, men do worry about their looks, especially their physiques and they do need reassurance from time to time.

4. Women tend to think that men are egotistical.

The secret here is that many times what woman say to men makes them feel disrespected and not admired and this in turn makes a man insecure and he overcompensates.  This can make them appear egotistical.   Men have know that they should never disparage a woman’s appearance.  If you want to turn off a man disparage a his abilities.

5. Women often feel that their appearance is what makes them desirable to a man.

The truth is most men feel a pair of jeans and mussed up hair is just as much a turn on as pumps and cosmetics. This is also true about body size and shape.  Men are not monolithic in their tastes and, like I said before, if you admire him and make him feel respected, he’s going to adore you.

6. Do men really tell you the truth about the way they feel you look?

Sometimes, but they will never tell you the truth when you ask them how they feel about the way a certain piece of clothes makes you look.  When you ask this, they only answer the question honestly in their heads.  They are going to say out loud what they think you want to here.

7. Men are just impossible to figure out.

The truth is, they are really pretty easy to figure.  The fact is, they are trying all of the time to live up to your expectations and not  their male friend’s expectations.  The more direct you are in expressing what you’d like the more you will get what you like.  Stop being coy about it.

8. Many women believe that men are not romantic

We men won’t always admit it, but we like candle lit baths with soft music almost as much as you women do, especially if you are taking it with us.

9.  Women think all men want is sex.

“Sure, we guys think about it more than women, but we don’t desire it for just the physical pleasure. For us, it isn’t as much about intimacy as it is for women, but it does meet our emotional need for self-confidence.”

10. Women think men are crazy for not asking for directions.
Men want to be challenged by figuring it out by themselves. It adds to their self esteem and gives them a sense of usefulness.

11. Women often feel men don’t listen to them.Do you know men?

Men listen to women but not the way women listen to each other.  Men want the “Reader’s Digest” version because they deal in facts and solutions whereas women put great stock in the talking part.  For women the act of listening is a form of intimacy, for men solving problems is the way they show caring and love.

12. Women can’t figure out why some men struggle when a baby is born in their family.

Men can feel abandoned by their wives when a baby comes into the picture.  Sure, this is probably immature but it is still true for some men.

How To Make A Man Attracted To You

Want to how to make a man attracted to you?

how to attract a manOkay, so a bunch of scientists at Syracuse University decided to find out ways to attract a man, ways that women could put to use in a simple straight forward technique. Hmmm…well, I don’t know how scientific attracting a man is and I don’t put a lot of stock in experts until they I can verify their expertise but here is 2 ways they came up with.

Body Language Can Attract a Man

This is sort of a no brainer. These scientists say a man’s initial attraction to a woman is often due to her physical appearance—ya’ think—and her body language. The physical appearance is pretty obvious, but attraction alone isn’t love and the body language part is pretty interesting and worth exploring. The trick in how to make a man attracted to you, they say, is to be subtle with your body language and give him non-verbal messages even before you actually talk to him. I am not sure exactly what these scientists had in mind since they didn’t provide a guide to body language to interest a man. In my opinion they are simply talking about the old-fashioned flirting. I also know that if you lightly touch him now and then—don’t be obvious, just a casual brush against him— it signals to him that you admire him which is a huge attractant for him. Again, don’t overdo this or he will run In a moment I will show you a super powerful and easy way to nearly kill a man with desire for you but first let me show you what else I’ve discovered.

Here’s Something Else I Found About Making a Man Attracted to You

In a book called Love Signals: A Practical Field Guide to the Body Language of Courtship I read the following:

“we naturally blink faster when we are emotionally excited. Bat those eyelashes to let him know you’re interested without saying a word.”

I also read that you should

“lean toward whatever – or whomever – they find most important at the time,”

I guess that you could try leaning toward him when you were near him or listening to what he had to say.

Copy Him

These scientists also claim that people are attracted to people who are like them. Time out! At this point let me warn you not to try to become something you aren’t just to attract a guy. First of all, it will be hard to do, difficult to maintain and impossible to carry off for the long run. Your best bet is to discover what you have in common with him and if it is enough then you can exploit those commonalities. Having said that, you can still use this technique when meeting a guy for the first time to attract him and then as your relationship evolves, you can learn ways to keep him attracted to you.

The Chameleon Effect

When you are first drawn to him, employ the “chameleon effect”—a term I stole from Love Signals. Basically you mirror some of his actions. If he sets his glass down then set yours down. If he leans back in his chair, lean back in yours. Please don’t be too obvious or else he’ll think you are creepy. The scientists discovered that “it’s not just mimicking of movements that indicate interest, but also timing. If he moves from slouching to sitting up straight, a few seconds later do the same.”

Here’s how you could use this to attract a man

When you use the “chameleon effect”, take a drink a few second after he drinks, Rest you hands on the table in a manner similar to the way he has his hands on the table. Take noteattract him like chameleon of his phrases and words then use them later on in the conversation. You need to copy him fairly soon after he has completed an action or said a phrase or else it won’t sync in his subconscious, but you can be too obvious. All of this copying won’t do you any good if there isn’t a core of similarity in your natures. If you are from totally different backgrounds and have totally different values then give it up right away. You don’t have to be carbon copies of each other, that would be a big drag, but you need to share similar values and at least a few similar interests, but each from your own perspective. If you have similar values both in the physical realm and in the spiritual realm and have at least a few joint interests, then this copying technique might be just the ticket to start a relationship There are powerful and easy to use ways to attract any man and as I promised here is a video that you need to see to get started.


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How To Attract A Man

This Is The #1 Way To Make a Man Desire You

It seems that a lot of women think the men are basically just a gland and that if they put tumbsupon a sexy outfit, spend some quality time at the make-up table and have great looking butt, legs, or breasts, then men will desire them.

Hmmm…Okay, so maybe that would get some desire, but hold the fort.  This is may be what would make some men want you, but it would be on a very superficial level and that whole scene will get very tiresome, very quickly. Plus, This is not the way to make a man desire you for the long haul. It only works for getting attention.

What Really Makes A Man Desire a Woman

I am going to reveal to you men’s deepest need and then show you ways you can easily use that need to make him nearly go mad over you.  If you drill down to the core of any man, what he needs and want most in a woman is to be admired by her.

Woman want to be desired and men want to be admired.  This is important so I’ll say it again: Woman want to be desired and men want to be admired.

In just a minute I will show you how to use this knowledge about men to make a man desire you.

Do It Right

Let me tell you a true story about how NOT to admire a man.  Then I will show you easy simple ways to use his need to be admired to make him obsessively desire you.

When I was much younger and doing the dating thing, I met a pretty young woman and we hit it off pretty well.  She invited me to dinner one evening at her house.

As it so happened when I was getting ready, I saw one of my sisters tabloids lying open on the bathroom counter.  The headline caught my eye.  It was something like, “12 Things To Say To a Man To Make Him Fall For You.”  Curious, I began reading and one of the things it said was to ask the guy if he wore colored contacts or if that were really the color of his eyes.

I flipped aside the magazine and finished my preparations and headed out.  When I arrived at her apartment, she was in the kitchen putting the finishing touches on spaghetti and meatballs.

As we sat there eating, she looked a bit nervous and then she suddenly looked at me and said, “Do you wear colored contacts or are those your real eyes.”

My toes curled.  Not only had she used the line from the tabloid, in her nervousness she’d actually asked me if my eyes were my real ones.  It was at that moment that I recalled another piece of advise from the tabloid: Invite the guy to a homemade dinner at your house.

You Are Not The Hunter

Needless to say, I ran like heck.  I felt like I was being hunted and that is, as my storied Grandfather would say, “bass Ackwards.”

Men are born hunters and warriors at heart and even though the currently popular advice says women can take that role also, the results will never be very good if you want a guy to desire you.

Alright, how do you go about using a mans need to be admired to get him to desire you?

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3 Ridiculous Ways to Make Him Want You Bad

make him desire you crazy techniquesOkay, get ready for three crazy ways to make him desire you, in fact, it will drive him nuts about you.  These three crazy techniques to make him want you may seem counter intuitive, but give them a try and then stand back and see what happens.

Way #1—Trigger a sense of good discomfort in his mind.

“Wait a minute! His discomfort will help me how?  This seems to be just the opposite of what I thought I should do!”

Men are programmed to desire what they have to hunt for!  They are born hunters and warriors, so if they don’t have to strive for it…they won’t value it as much and that goes for the women they seek.  In fact if you are to easy to get, they’ll lose interest and if you go after them, they’ll run like the dickens.

If you really want him to desire you, then learn to create a certain amount of uncertainty— I know, that is somewhat of an oxymoron.

make him want you bad drinkI am not talking about you ignoring him completely and hoping he will actually chase you, that idea is a belief that shipwrecks many woman’s attempt to get the man they want to want them.

You need to do a little flirting so he’ll recognize you are interested in him. Then pull the plug a little on him and then flirt a little more.  This will drive him nuts! Give him a sip of pleasure and then mix in a little discomfort.

This cocktail awakens the hunter instinct  in him. In a nutshell,  you make him really feel 90 % satisfaction combined with 10 % uncertainty as to your feelings for him.

There’s a really easy formula that I’ll show you in a moment. but first lets me finish with my make-him-want-you cocktail recipe.

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This cocktail can awaken an extreme sense of desire within a male’s brain that is simply hard for him to regulate. In other words, Just like a hunter catching wind of a fleeing deer, It makes him want to pursue you like crazy.  If he is your ex it will make him miss you and want you back. His emotional intensity is suddenly ratcheted up and he feels this hot, raw, extreme passion for you bubbling up in his body and you become irreplaceable to him. This cocktail works so well because it is awakening his masculinity and triggering his pleasure hormones.

Sure, it sounds a bit weird right now, but like I said, I’ll show you easily and exactly how to accomplish all of this. Before that, however, allow me to get to our second weird way to make him want you bad!.

Way #2—Re-frame his perspective: Make him want you bad!

Isn’t it frustrating when you look around and see guys that go completely nuts over a specific woman despite the fact that she’s NOT that good looking or seems all that smart? Did you ever see some great looking guy with a woman who isn’t that well put together and think, what ‘s with that? She isn’t that pretty or unique is she?

The crucial point to keep in mind here is that from your perspective, she may not be that unique or eye-catching but the man is viewing her via an entirely different perspective. He’s giving her points based on things that you may not have considered at all.  What you need to understand is re-framing!  

The fact is, all man are not just knuckle dragging glands waiting to be expressed. You need to re-frame yourself for them man you want to have desire you re-framing to make him desire youand the good news is that you could use re-framing to make him want you bad, and make him find you super appealing, exceptionally unique and alluring.

If you think you do not look as hot as some of the ladies around you or you think you are not that smart then think again.

Think: re-framing It works like this, by making only minor changes in yourself, you can make a man desire you and assume that you are among one of the most appealing ladies he’s ever found, and not only that, you could actually make him see you as this unique, long-shot female he would be very fortunate to have in his life.

I am going to reveal a secret about men that will allow you to re-frame yourself in his mind and make him desire you as his only possible and ideal selection. Before we do this let’s move on to the last weird way to get him to want you.

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Way #3—Make Him Desire You: Appeal to the masculine part of him.

make him desire you like a cavemenEvery man is born with a protector reaction, his task in the “very early caveman days” involved among other things, protecting his mate and family.

Our society seems to freak at the mere hint of masculinity.   I guess it is left over from the 60’s, but sadly it is still true.  Most men have been beaten down to a feminine pulp by our modern society.  But biology won’t be denied and most woman , even if they don’t realize it, really want a masculine man.  Not a macho man, but a truly masculine one.

Awaken this masculine component of a male completely and he would feel a gut need to make you secure and safe. It makes him do almost anything for you. When this part awakens, he will want to do things for you, he’ll want to take care of you and be accountable for your well being.

Woman don’t realize how much a men want to please them.  It is built into our DNA.  Many ladies make the mistake of thinking that to get a man to love them, they ought to do a great deal of dressing to the nines, appearing hot and sexy, etc.  The reality is that too much of this may really repulse him just like an over-muscled macho man repulses most woman.

Because every male is birthed as a hunter, he is, at his very core a provider.  Understanding this and allowing him to fulfill his instincts will awaken his desire for you and make him want you bad. I

can hear you say, “alright I recognize that I need to give him some discomfort in his thoughts, re-frame his thinking and awaken the masculine part of him but I am still a little baffled considering that I don’t understand specifically just what to do.”

Okay, like I promised, here is a quick video that will reveal a quick and simple way to accomplish all of this.  Enjoy.

Make Him Desire You, Trigger His Pleasure Hormone

If you trigger a guy’s pleasure hormones, he will obsessively desire you. He can’t help it. He will only desire you, no other women will do and it is really simple to do. In a minute I will show you how but first let me explain what pleasure hormones are.closequote

What’s Pleasure Hormones?

make him want youAlright ,so you sit there and watch a guy at an online casino or any place guys are betting and he cannot seem to quit betting even when he is losing his hard-earned money? Why is he doing that?

His rational mind can understands that he is shedding cash like a Golden Retriever sheds fur in the summer but he goes completely nuts and can’t stop himself. (By the way, avoid this guy.)

What makes this so?

This is due to the fact that throughout the gambling process, this guy’s brain experiences a hefty rise of hormones usually referred to as the “pleasure hormones.” These hormones are so habit forming that all logic  fails the guy and he keeps going, obeying the instructions of the hormones instead of reason.

Use This To Make Him Desire You

make him desire youFortunately, you have the ability to cause these exact same “pleasure hormones” in a guy’s brain, and make him feel practically an irrepressible dependence on you, much like the gambler depends on the rush he gets from betting and it is not that hard to do—like I promised, I’ll show you but first let me explain what this will do to him.

When you do this to him, the next thing you’ll know is every time you’re around him, he will experience emotions such as Love, well-being, enjoyment and that will make  him want you like a child craves candy.

He is going to feel such a strong inner desire for you that it will send out a shock rippling through him that will compel him to have a virtually, naturally driven desire for you.

He will continuously be mentally famished for you and you will be his nourishment. You will come to be the source of his psychological satisfaction. Without you, he will be like fish without water. He will desire you.

Make Him Obsess Over You

Triggering his pleasure hormones will make him desire you so deeply that no other female will be able to satisfy this extreme inner urge he’s experiencing, and as an outcome he will have no other female to go to…unless it is you.

He will subconsciously feel prompts to do good things for you; actually, he will find it a great pleasure to make you satisfied.

And not simply this, you will come to be so important to him, that he will subconsciously believe you’re 100 times more interesting, than any other woman around.

So now you must be questioning, just how do I do it? As I promised, here’s how, follow this link …

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Two Weird Ways To Make Him Suddenly Desire You

The first step maybe a little weird, but it works very well at making him feel impulsive love for you.

Tune yourself to his frequency

make him desire youOkay, so you want him to feel an intense, addictive love for you but you don’t know how to go about it. The trick is, to get yourself to become tuned to him emotionally.

In other words, you need to be emotionally in-tune or in harmony with him by connecting to the emotional side of him rather than his logical side.

Too many women try to approach a man logically. They think, a man will like me for the way I dress or cook so if I dress sexy and cook great meals I can convince them to desire me.

This never works in the long run because you’re missing one of the most important things. This missing piece of the puzzle is emotion!

Everyone of us has met or knows a woman who can get any guy to go absolutely nuts over her. She can get them to do the craziest and often the most embarrassing actions just to please her.

At the same time we also know or have met or know a woman who seems to do things just right, still, she doesn’t seem to be able to even garner the slightest bit of attention from any man let alone the one she desperately desires.

What makes the difference between the first and second woman?

The answer is pretty simple, the first woman gets the important idea of tuning herself emotionally with a man and this mean she’s able to get that man to dance to her drumbeat. This happens while all the other women around her are struggling, and trying very hard, but never succeeding.

In the final accounting, you’ll always be trying and failing with men, unless you can get yourself emotionally in-tune with them. If you can’t understand how to do this, you will be wasting your time and never getting anywhere.

I will show you a super simple way to do this in just a few minutes but first let me give you the second weird thing you need to do.

Weird Thing Number 2

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Make yourself a legend in his mind.  You heard me, make yourself a valuable asset to him.  Do you think diamonds are expensive because they sparkle and are pretty?  If that were the case then Christmas Tree trimmings would cost a fortune.

Diamonds are expensive because they are rare, hard to find, and hard to get.  Are you a diamond to him or are you a piece of tinsel.  I see women everyday who constantly sell themselves short and then complain about how horrible men are.  Don’t give yourself away.

There is an art to being coy and you need to learn it and fight the impulse to appear too eager to have him.  Men are hunters by nature and they will pursue what they desire.  This doesn’t mean that you ignore him, but just give him enough of a taste to awaken his desire.  This will start making him desire you.

Be The Pot Of Gold

When was a kid I saw a rainbow over the fields where we lived.  Since I could obviously see where it touched the earth, I thought I’d head out and grab the pot of gold.  Actually, I didn’t believe that there was a pot of gold, but I do remember thinking how much fun it would be to play around in all that color.

After about 30 minutes of walking I realized that the rainbow was no closer and that I would never reach it.  You need to be sort of like the rainbow, keep in his sight but never let him fully catch you.Get emotionally in-tune with him and then be his rainbow and you will make him desire you.

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Men Want Women So Become A Women Men Desire

The right attitude and appearance are the two biggest components of women men desire. In fact, your attitude and appearance are your calling cards for any guy you meet.

Your appearance is the first thing he will notice simply because men are visual and men want women who care about the way they look. Then your attitude is what will keep making him desire you far beyond your initial meeting.

“I saw her across the room and wow… I knew I had to meet her.”

Make him desire you by your looks

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Okay, so I know it may sound cheap. But facts are facts and men are visual by nature. At this point you may throw up your hands and say, “yeah I know, men are so shallow,” but hold on a second. A woman’s appearance may attract man at first, in fact, it may turn him on but it will not keep him desiring you. If you want a guy to want you again and again, you must also have the right attitude.

Use your appearance to get him interested.

man desires womanYou’ve seen the old Warner Bros. cartoons where the beautiful woman walks in the door and the wolf ‘s mouth drops open and his tongue rolls out across the floor. While that may be a bit over dramatic, it does illustrate a man’s visual reaction to a lovely looking woman.

Take a good look at what you’ve got. What are your physical assets. You don’t have to be a Hollywood starlet in order to attract men. In order to get him interested in you, you may only have to spruce up what you’ve already got.  Knowing what physical attributes a guy is attracted to is a big help.

In general, men are attracted to women who are concerned about their own appearance. You can make any guy desire you more by the way you dress, apply your make up and comport yourself.

There is an old saying in business that goes something like this: dress for the job you want, not the job you have. The same goes for attracting any man you want. Dress for the man you want to desire you and not just for yourself.

In other words, if you dress like a biker chick you will probably attract bikers whereas if you dress like a successful woman you will likely attract successful man.

Attitude Makes You A Desirable Woman

insecure womanIf you believed pop cultural stereotypes, you’d believe that all men are dreaming of having a supermodel but according to several top surveys of over 1000 men, it turns out that this is a myth.

The vast majority of men want a sweet women who is compatible with them.  Yea, I know, it is not that much different than what women want in a mate.  As I said before, men and women want the same thing, just not in the same order.

What would you think that the number one attribute is that men are looking for in a woman’s attitude? Again, if you believe the pop culture tripe that  our media pushes on us everyday, it would be sexiness, hot looks, etc.  BUT it is not.

The number one thing in the survey was CONFIDENCE!  That’s right, men want a confident mate.  When you think of it, this makes sense.  No one want’s to spend time with a anyone of any sex who is insecure and whiny.

…And What Would You Believe The Second Attribute Was?

Even the second attribute is way off from pop culture stereotypes.  The next thing on anot dumb please man’s wish list for a women they would desire is intelligence.

Again, this makes sense on a biological level as well as a practical level.  If a man desires a less than intelligent woman, this simply reveals his own insecurity.

A strong confident man needs a strong confident woman to be with.

Other attributes of a desirable woman

The list of attributes is pretty surprising when contrasted with what we are told everyday by our media.  Some of the other attributes that made the top 10 were…

  • unmaterialistic
  • spontaneity
  • Laid-Back
  • Playfulness
  • Honesty
  • Independence
  • Supportive

It is funny that the only thing the only mention of an attribute that had anything to do with physical attraction was sensuality.

In the end, if you want to stop wishing and start having the guy you want.  You need to learn how to cultivate these types of attributes and show them off.

In short you need to learn how to make him desire you.