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Make Him Want You

So you want him to want you and yet it seems like most guys are just staring right past you. It is frustrating and discouraging to say the least.

Wouldn’t it be nice to have a remote control that you could use to make yourself irresistible? Well, there is no such thing, but there almost is.

know menMost women overthink things when it comes to guys, but guys are much more simple than that. If guys were paint-samples there would be about 3 choices, gray, white and black compared to a woman being all of the shades available at your local paint store.

Once you learn the simple way men think and what attracts them to women, you can easily get any guy you want to feel like he can’t breathe without you. In fact, men are programmed to want to please a woman and when you tap into this built in nature, he will be eager and anxious to do things that please you.

Most women make the mistake of thinking that everything revolves around physical appearance and while it is true that men are visual creatures, appearance is not what keeps men in long-term relationships with women.

Have you ever known a woman that is rather plain in appearance and yet has all of the men falling all over themselves to please her? What is her secret? In short it is that she understands how to switch on a man’s pleasure hormones when she’s around and you can learn how to do this also.

No more lonely weekends watching all of your friends go off with their dates, or worse yet, being the extra thumb at the party where everyone else is a couple. Not good!

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Top 10 Scientific Things That Make A Person Attractive

10 Uh?

pigkissHumans produce pheromones from our genitals, nipples, and underarms. No one really knows if we humans respond to these pheromones the way the rest of the animal world does but scientists tried them out on pigs and it worked for them. This makes you wonder if we might end up getting the wrong animal to desire us.

9. Love at fast sight?

You’ve got between 90 seconds to 4 minutes to make someone desire you. At least that is what psychologists tell us. And if you think you can use your witty banter to attract someone, think again. Within 90 seconds to 4 minutes you’re desirability is based on 88% your body language, tone and speed of your voice and only 7% is based on the words you say.

8. Love is in the brain

So what exactly makes us attracted to someone? A bunch of neurotransmitters in the brain called “monoamines” that produce all of the feelings we associate with love. We are talking things like a decrease in appetite or a need for sleep, because we are obsessed with someone.

7. Desire is in the numbers

Believe it or not Attractiveness is a mathematical ration and faces that are mathematically average are the most attractive.  Now we are not talking average in the usual way, we are talking average in mathematical terms. In other words the closer your ears, eyes and nose are positioned on your face according to an average ratio the more attractive you are. As an example, the space between the eyes and mouth should be about 36% of the overall length of the face, but the span of the eyes are best at 46% of the overall width of your face. These ratios apply to the body as well. Hip-waist ratios are part of a person’s ‘attractiveness’ as well.

6. Biology, psychology and culture

These factors attract us to specific types of people. Fischer in her books, Anatomy of Love, Why We Love, and Why Him? Why Her? states that there are 4 types of people.

  • Explorers (creative and dominated by dopamine)
  • Builder (sensible and soaked in serotonin)
  • Director (reasoning and ruled by testosterone)
  • Negotiator (intuitive, idealistic, and all about the estrogen and oxytocin)

5. Love makes you high.

Fall in love and a person experiences the same euphoria that cocaine produces. Scientists using MRI scans show that the neural network linked to cocaine use is activated when a person is in love.

4. Love Doesn’t Hurt

Want to be less vulnerable to pain then fall in love. Dr. Arthur Aron, a psychology professor at the State University of New York of Stony Brook, said, “It turns out that some of the areas of the brain activated by feelings of intense love are the same areas that drugs use to reduce pain.”

3. Details, details, details

red_blueIt turns out that desire is all about small details! A person’s voice, pants color, hair and stuff like that jas a huge impact on a person’s attractiveness.

For example studies indicate that guys prefer women that have higher voices and higher voices are indicators of elevated levels of estrogen. On the other hand, women desire men with low voices and you guessed it, that is linked to higher testosterone levels.

Another example is that guys were attracted to women wearing red rather than women in blue; red is supposed to be a signal for sexual excitability.

In another study, women seemed to be attracted to men with a 5 o’clock shadow rather than a shaven face.

2. What keeps a man home?

Just 3% to 5% of other mammals are monogamous with their partners. So what would drive a man to have a monogamous relationship?

University of Bonn in Germany has an answer.  According to them, physical activities involved in a steady relationship such as cuddling, massages, sexual intercourse, etc. produce Oxytocin in guys. Guys can get addicted to that oxytocin and stay home for the “fix” their lover gives.

1. Love at first sight takes 8.2 seconds

This may be a crazy fact, but if when a guy first looks at you and he looks at you for at least 8.2 seconds.  The research shows that men who are attracted to a women will look at her for at least 8.2 seconds when he first sees her.  Less than that and your chances drop off.  Interestingly this does not hold true for women.

Make Him Want You: Six Powerful Steps

#1 Looking Busy Makes Him Want You

What ever you do, don’t let him think you are pining away the hours waiting for him to call you—even if you are. Now is the time to take up a hobby or busy yourself in someway that doesn’t include him.

Make sure he knows how busy you are and how full-filled your life is. This alone will pique his interest in you and make him want you all the more.

#2 Like Water Off a Ducks Back

water Even if his lack of attention bothers you, shrug it off as fare as he is concerned. Whining to him about his lack of attention will get you one thing—less attention.

Don’t ever start in on him about the way things used to be or ask him why things aren’t the way they used to be. Men HATE relationship questions.

Remember that hormones will drive the first part of any relationship, but relationships are not static. They progress and just like the seasons change with time, so does a relationship.

This means that there should come a time, naturally, where you are both comfortable enough and secure enough that you don’t need to be with each other 24/7

#3 Tease Him

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Look, men are visual and once you understand what his turn ones are, you’re going to havemake_him_want_you him wanting you all the time. Surprise him when he comes home by wearing something sexy.

Experiment with things, starting with things that make you feel sexy. When you feel sexy, it will probably translate to him.

They say a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach but believe me they missed a little bit north on that one.

Women have the power in any relationship if they only understand how to wield it. Men will melt at the skillful touch of a woman.

This is one of the most misunderstood truisms about the relationship between men and women.

#4 Look Ma’velous Dahling

No matter what your body size or shape, look your best. This will communicate to him the type of person you are. Plus, there is that visual thing with men that I have already mentioned. Looking your best will definitely help him want you.

#5 Grab The Bull By The…Horns

Don’t always just sit and wait for him to take the initiative. Try leaving a note for him to meet bull you at a favorite restaurant with “fun to follow.”

Surprise him with a costume and roll playing. These are only two things you can do, but you need to make sure you know him well enough to pull this off. Once you do he is going to want you even more.

This technique can really be powerful but it can backfire if you are not well prepared and understand what turns him on. Use it carefully.

#6 Bring The Ego Pump

Most men have alarmingly deflated egos and they constantly hide this fact from women. So, observe him and make mental notes about what he is proud of. Make mental notes about what you genuinely admire about him. Then drop compliments about these things. The secret is to be genuine and not over do it. One or two compliments will suffice.

Guys will claim they need “guy time”, a time to be with their buddies of by themselves. This may be true and you can just leave it at that or you can light such a fire in him that his “guy time” all but vanishes! You can do this with out nagging him about your relationship.

To do this, just let him see you confident independent side. Not in a revengeful way, but in a natural way. If he sees a confident sexy girl willingly walking away from him to do something else, it’s going to awaken the hunter in him and make him want you bad.

These six important ways to make him want you are just the beginning of a powerful technique to make him obsessively desire you.


Chris is a freelance writer and life coach.  You can learn how to make him desire you at

Remote Control His Desire For You

Can you actually ignite your relationship with messages you text to him?


Do you believe you “don’t have time for romance?” Romance coach Michael Fiore assumes you’re wrong, as a matter of fact, he claims he can show you how you can bring all the love, love as well as desire you’re missing with the man you want, simply by pushing a couple of buttons on the cellular phone you have in your pocket or handbag right now.

“Digital Desire Starter”

“Text messages are a lot like telepathy when you think of it” states Fiore.  “Just by pressing a few buttons on your mobile phone you could produce a personal little fantasy world of desire in him for you where you can do or say anything without anyone else knowing.”

He Made Rachael Tingle

Rachael-Ray-Mike-on-set-largeMichael Fiore as with his Text The Romance Technique have actually been featured on national television and radio including appearing on “The Rachael Ray Program” on Valentine’s Day, where just one of Michael’s “Magic” messages texted to Rachael made her feel “tingles” and also had the whole audience oohing and ahhing.

Go watch this brief video clip to find out the best ways to use small little text messages to bring the spark and also power back into your relationship (also if the man you want is a “Charming” and never seems to desire you then make him desire you with text messages…I’m not kidding. This program has helped thousands of women around the globe make him desire them, and Michael Fiore ensures it will certainly help you.

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Make Who Desire You?

What Physical Features Do Women Find Most Attractive In Men?

So you want him to want you, but who is he? What does he look like?  While it is true that women are not as visual as men, they are not blind.

What physical features does a man have to have in order for you to want him to desire you.  Take our survey and see how you stack up against what other women want in a man that they hope wants them.

So, how did you stack up?  If you think you have the right guy that you want to desire you and he has all the right parts.  I invite you to read my review of Alex Carter’s book Make Him Desire You.

How Well Do You Know Men?

know men1. A lot of women assume men will skip over them for the super slim looking woman.

The truth is, most men think the these slim girls would look better with an extra 15 pounds or so on them.

2. Women often do not know what men desire in a woman and they mistakenly think it is solely their appearance.

The truth is, men are super attracted to women who make them feel respected and admired.  If you create these feelings in a man you will have him wrapped around your little finger.

3. Women feel like men don’t care how they look and this bothers them because it reflects poorly them.

The truth is, men do worry about their looks, especially their physiques and they do need reassurance from time to time.

4. Women tend to think that men are egotistical.

The secret here is that many times what woman say to men makes them feel disrespected and not admired and this in turn makes a man insecure and he overcompensates.  This can make them appear egotistical.   Men have know that they should never disparage a woman’s appearance.  If you want to turn off a man disparage a his abilities.

5. Women often feel that their appearance is what makes them desirable to a man.

The truth is most men feel a pair of jeans and mussed up hair is just as much a turn on as pumps and cosmetics. This is also true about body size and shape.  Men are not monolithic in their tastes and, like I said before, if you admire him and make him feel respected, he’s going to adore you.

6. Do men really tell you the truth about the way they feel you look?

Sometimes, but they will never tell you the truth when you ask them how they feel about the way a certain piece of clothes makes you look.  When you ask this, they only answer the question honestly in their heads.  They are going to say out loud what they think you want to here.

7. Men are just impossible to figure out.

The truth is, they are really pretty easy to figure.  The fact is, they are trying all of the time to live up to your expectations and not  their male friend’s expectations.  The more direct you are in expressing what you’d like the more you will get what you like.  Stop being coy about it.

8. Many women believe that men are not romantic

We men won’t always admit it, but we like candle lit baths with soft music almost as much as you women do, especially if you are taking it with us.

9.  Women think all men want is sex.

“Sure, we guys think about it more than women, but we don’t desire it for just the physical pleasure. For us, it isn’t as much about intimacy as it is for women, but it does meet our emotional need for self-confidence.”

10. Women think men are crazy for not asking for directions.
Men want to be challenged by figuring it out by themselves. It adds to their self esteem and gives them a sense of usefulness.

11. Women often feel men don’t listen to them.Do you know men?

Men listen to women but not the way women listen to each other.  Men want the “Reader’s Digest” version because they deal in facts and solutions whereas women put great stock in the talking part.  For women the act of listening is a form of intimacy, for men solving problems is the way they show caring and love.

12. Women can’t figure out why some men struggle when a baby is born in their family.

Men can feel abandoned by their wives when a baby comes into the picture.  Sure, this is probably immature but it is still true for some men.

Men Want Women So Become A Women Men Desire

The right attitude and appearance are the two biggest components of women men desire. In fact, your attitude and appearance are your calling cards for any guy you meet.

Your appearance is the first thing he will notice simply because men are visual and men want women who care about the way they look. Then your attitude is what will keep making him desire you far beyond your initial meeting.

“I saw her across the room and wow… I knew I had to meet her.”

Make him desire you by your looks

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Okay, so I know it may sound cheap. But facts are facts and men are visual by nature. At this point you may throw up your hands and say, “yeah I know, men are so shallow,” but hold on a second. A woman’s appearance may attract man at first, in fact, it may turn him on but it will not keep him desiring you. If you want a guy to want you again and again, you must also have the right attitude.

Use your appearance to get him interested.

man desires womanYou’ve seen the old Warner Bros. cartoons where the beautiful woman walks in the door and the wolf ‘s mouth drops open and his tongue rolls out across the floor. While that may be a bit over dramatic, it does illustrate a man’s visual reaction to a lovely looking woman.

Take a good look at what you’ve got. What are your physical assets. You don’t have to be a Hollywood starlet in order to attract men. In order to get him interested in you, you may only have to spruce up what you’ve already got.  Knowing what physical attributes a guy is attracted to is a big help.

In general, men are attracted to women who are concerned about their own appearance. You can make any guy desire you more by the way you dress, apply your make up and comport yourself.

There is an old saying in business that goes something like this: dress for the job you want, not the job you have. The same goes for attracting any man you want. Dress for the man you want to desire you and not just for yourself.

In other words, if you dress like a biker chick you will probably attract bikers whereas if you dress like a successful woman you will likely attract successful man.

Attitude Makes You A Desirable Woman

insecure womanIf you believed pop cultural stereotypes, you’d believe that all men are dreaming of having a supermodel but according to several top surveys of over 1000 men, it turns out that this is a myth.

The vast majority of men want a sweet women who is compatible with them.  Yea, I know, it is not that much different than what women want in a mate.  As I said before, men and women want the same thing, just not in the same order.

What would you think that the number one attribute is that men are looking for in a woman’s attitude? Again, if you believe the pop culture tripe that  our media pushes on us everyday, it would be sexiness, hot looks, etc.  BUT it is not.

The number one thing in the survey was CONFIDENCE!  That’s right, men want a confident mate.  When you think of it, this makes sense.  No one want’s to spend time with a anyone of any sex who is insecure and whiny.

…And What Would You Believe The Second Attribute Was?

Even the second attribute is way off from pop culture stereotypes.  The next thing on anot dumb please man’s wish list for a women they would desire is intelligence.

Again, this makes sense on a biological level as well as a practical level.  If a man desires a less than intelligent woman, this simply reveals his own insecurity.

A strong confident man needs a strong confident woman to be with.

Other attributes of a desirable woman

The list of attributes is pretty surprising when contrasted with what we are told everyday by our media.  Some of the other attributes that made the top 10 were…

  • unmaterialistic
  • spontaneity
  • Laid-Back
  • Playfulness
  • Honesty
  • Independence
  • Supportive

It is funny that the only thing the only mention of an attribute that had anything to do with physical attraction was sensuality.

In the end, if you want to stop wishing and start having the guy you want.  You need to learn how to cultivate these types of attributes and show them off.

In short you need to learn how to make him desire you. 

Make Him Desire You Spell Really?

Make Him Desire You SpellI was looking through some webpages the other day when I came across a make him desire you spell. As I read about the spell I began to laugh.  I laughed until I realized that a lot of people take this stuff seriously. They think they can cast some kind of spell on a man to get him to desire them– Nothing could be further from the truth.

The only thing a make him desire you spell will benefit is the person who is perpetuating the scam. If you come across something like this and you wish for someone to desire you don’t buy it.  You’re better off without relying on something that is more fictional than fact.

Spells Are Gimmicks

Spells are gimmicks and gimmicks will never get you what you want. In order to attract a man or to be desirable to a man you must be genuine and not try to be something that you are not. In fact, I would say at this point that if you plan on wanting a man to desire you and you have to twist yourself into much of a pretzel in order to do that. It just isn’t worth it.

Spells like a make him desire you spell should be put in the trash heap along with other gimmicks such as cute sayings that are suppose to make him want you. There are people who actually will sell you entire booklets full of sayings that are suppose to make a guy want you. Don’t waste your money.  He’ll see through it quicker than lingerie from Victoria’s Secret.

Much Easier Ways To Make Him Desire You

There are much easier ways to get a guy to want you. The trick is trying to get a guy to desire you in a way that you want him to desire you. For this you need to learn how to make yourself desirable. We’re not talking lustful attraction for one night fling type of desire but a lasting desire that will turn into a lifelong relationship that will be fulfilling and rich.

In order for this to happen, you must never resort to spells, gimmicks, or tricks because these will always fail and backfire in the end.

A good place for you to start is to take a piece of paper and write down a list of qualities you would like to have in a life mate. Once you have that written down, then you’ll be able to know what type of guy to look for. Then you can begin your search in the appropriate place. For instance, if you want a guy who is a steady strong reliable man, looking for him in your local bar may not be such a good idea.

Instead you should go looking for the guy that you want to desire you in places where that type of guy will hang out. For instance, if you want an intellectual type, you might want to hang out at political rallies. If you want a civic minded guy, you might want to volunteer at local charities and see who else might be there.

Once you find a guy that has several of the qualities on your list it’s time to turn the attention to yourself. It’s time to make yourself desirable to that man. If you try to make yourself desirable to a man who is ultimately not compatible with you, it will only result in trouble and if you use gimmicks to make him think you are what you aren’t, then that will fail also.

Find the right guy and then you can use some of the methods in the book make him desire you to get him to want you very bad.


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You Can Make Yourself Desirable To Any Man

Make Yourself Desirable

Too many women just sigh and shrug their shoulders when they try but fail to attract the man they want.. They think they can do nothing about getting in him to desire them, that is it beyond their powers and in the hands of fate..

But, hold the fort! Have you ever thought that maybe you can make yourself more desirable? Not to be too crass, but have you ever thought about selling something. If you take that thing, clean it up, maybe paint it and polish it, you make it more desirable and you get a higher price for it.

Don’t misunderstand me, I’m not suggesting that you need any painting or polishing. What I am suggesting, is that you can make yourself more desirable to him, if you understand his wants and desires.

Massage His Ego a Bit

make yourself desireableIn general, the things men desire are ego gratifying experiences. In other words, he likes to have his ego stroked. So if you are the type that is always talking about yourself and your interests, you might try to notice the things he’s interested in and talk about them a bit more.

For instance, if he’s really into Harley Davidson motorcycles, you might notice his motorcycle and how shiny and clean it is. Make sure you genuinely compliment him on it. This will make you more desirable to him immediately. Men are simple that way. Don’t try to over analyze them and don’t think that they think like women do.

Men Want To Be Admired

Remember, we are speaking in generalities here and not specifics. In general, women want to be desired, whereas, men want to be admired. The more you can admire a man or at least making feel admired the more desirable you will be to him. With a little thought and some action you’ll be surprised at how fast you can make a man desire you.

Be Genuine

The key here, is to be genuine. Men can spot flattery from a mile away. Make sure the things you complimented him on are things that you really admire about him.

Another thing that will make most men feel admired is if their women need them. Now before we go too far, we are not talking about being a needy woman! If a man feels you’re needy, all is lost.

What we are talking about here, is genuine need. Perhaps it is a need for security or maybe a need for fixing things around the house. In any case, make sure it is a real need and make sure you tell him how much you admire him for it. This will get him burning with desire for you.

Maintain Your Independence

Now let me clarify things a bit. Be a strong, independent woman but allow him to help you where you need help. That is the secret.

Remember, these are general principles and there is a lot of specific things that we don’t have room to discuss here. The bottom line is, you have the power to make yourself desirable to almost any Man you wish. All you have to do is learn how.

If You Want Him To Desire You, Don’t Do This

Don’t Do This If You Want Him To Desire You

You may think that fate holds the key to your romantic future and that there is nothing much you can do to make someone desire you.  Well, you couldn’t be more wrong.  Getting any man to want you is a pretty simple trick once you understand how men think and communicate.  They are much simpler creatures than you could imagine.

They do not have the complex emotional levels or communication modes that women do and this is where many women make a huge mistake.

Make Him Want You NOT Remake Him.

When women think that men communicate the way they do and have the same spectrum of emotions they read things into what men say and do that just isn’t there.  If you want a man to desire you, to really obsess about you then you need to stop reading things into what they say and do.

Men, generally, are pretty straight forward creatures, so getting them to desire you is as simple as making them feel good about themselves.  Men feel good about themselves when they feel a women admires them and that they can take care of them in one way or another.

We are not talking a fakey, eyelash-batting act, but find real things in your life that you appreciate his help and care.  The let him know.

Just The Fact’s Ma’am

Women often want men to want to do things for them and they read into a man’s inattention a lack of desire for them when simply telling a man what pleases you and what you desire will get you the results you want.

For instance, you might like it when a man notices your hair cut.  Women will notice a couple inches cut off your hair, most men won’t.  Instead of feeling bad about him not noticing, tell him you got a haircut and ask him how it looks.

Then let him know how good it makes you feel when he says he loves it.  The bottom line is to understand how men think.  Be direct with them in what they can do to make you feel desired.

Never assume that they communicate and think the same way your girlfriends do.

About The Author

Paul is a free lance writer and author who loves the study of relationships.  You can learn how to make any man desire you visit  Make Him Desire You.

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