The right attitude and appearance are the two biggest components of women men desire. In fact, your attitude and appearance are your calling cards for any guy you meet.
Your appearance is the first thing he will notice simply because men are visual and men want women who care about the way they look. Then your attitude is what will keep making him desire you far beyond your initial meeting.
“I saw her across the room and wow… I knew I had to meet her.”
Make him desire you by your looks
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Okay, so I know it may sound cheap. But facts are facts and men are visual by nature. At this point you may throw up your hands and say, “yeah I know, men are so shallow,” but hold on a second. A woman’s appearance may attract man at first, in fact, it may turn him on but it will not keep him desiring you. If you want a guy to want you again and again, you must also have the right attitude.
Use your appearance to get him interested.
You’ve seen the old Warner Bros. cartoons where the beautiful woman walks in the door and the wolf ‘s mouth drops open and his tongue rolls out across the floor. While that may be a bit over dramatic, it does illustrate a man’s visual reaction to a lovely looking woman.
Take a good look at what you’ve got. What are your physical assets. You don’t have to be a Hollywood starlet in order to attract men. In order to get him interested in you, you may only have to spruce up what you’ve already got. Knowing what physical attributes a guy is attracted to is a big help.
In general, men are attracted to women who are concerned about their own appearance. You can make any guy desire you more by the way you dress, apply your make up and comport yourself.
There is an old saying in business that goes something like this: dress for the job you want, not the job you have. The same goes for attracting any man you want. Dress for the man you want to desire you and not just for yourself.
In other words, if you dress like a biker chick you will probably attract bikers whereas if you dress like a successful woman you will likely attract successful man.
Attitude Makes You A Desirable Woman
If you believed pop cultural stereotypes, you’d believe that all men are dreaming of having a supermodel but according to several top surveys of over 1000 men, it turns out that this is a myth.
The vast majority of men want a sweet women who is compatible with them. Yea, I know, it is not that much different than what women want in a mate. As I said before, men and women want the same thing, just not in the same order.
What would you think that the number one attribute is that men are looking for in a woman’s attitude? Again, if you believe the pop culture tripe that our media pushes on us everyday, it would be sexiness, hot looks, etc. BUT it is not.
The number one thing in the survey was CONFIDENCE! That’s right, men want a confident mate. When you think of it, this makes sense. No one want’s to spend time with a anyone of any sex who is insecure and whiny.
…And What Would You Believe The Second Attribute Was?
Even the second attribute is way off from pop culture stereotypes. The next thing on a man’s wish list for a women they would desire is intelligence.
Again, this makes sense on a biological level as well as a practical level. If a man desires a less than intelligent woman, this simply reveals his own insecurity.
A strong confident man needs a strong confident woman to be with.
Other attributes of a desirable woman
The list of attributes is pretty surprising when contrasted with what we are told everyday by our media. Some of the other attributes that made the top 10 were…
It is funny that the only thing the only mention of an attribute that had anything to do with physical attraction was sensuality.
In the end, if you want to stop wishing and start having the guy you want. You need to learn how to cultivate these types of attributes and show them off.
In short you need to learn how to make him desire you.