When I was a younger guy, I used to try to copy what I believed was a cool macho attitude toward women. I’d swagger, use really stupid cliched pick-up lines on them. I once actually said, out loud, to a girl, “If I told you you had a great body, would you hold it against me?” My toes are curling now just thinking about that. To top it off, I used to sit and wonder what was wrong with me, why couldn’t I have a girlfriend like other guys did?
I guess we’re all humans—some of us more than others—we all make blunders because we accept mistaken assumptions that we have developed.
These false beliefs make us terribly ignorant of the fact that our miss-informed actions and decisions will lead us to failure!
And guess what? This may not be a disaster in and of itself if we learn from these mistakes learn what not to do next time. Still, don’t you want to NOT make these crazy choices in the first place?
Not only can you get a guy, but you can get a GREAT guy. Yes, they are out there when you learn to look in the right places and you unlearn all of the myths that have been sabotaging you at every step.
Unlearning is as important as learning
You must start by UNLEARNING all of your incorrect beliefs that inhibit your better judgment. It is like the first time I bought an old house to flip. I thought I’d go in and ding it up a bit and then sell it for a good profit.
I spent days just trying to patch up and smooth over holes in the walls and then there were those stains. I would paint over them a dozen times and like ghosts in a horror movie, they’d show up through the new paint. This happened even when I used industrial strength primer and stain-block!
In the end I had to tear out all of the old wall board, rip up all of the old carpet and basically strip the house down to its studs and floor joists, but then it became easy to make the place look brand-new again. So you need to unlearn or tear out all of your old misconceptions that you have learned about men.
Since these misconceptions are so deeply rooted it is impossible for us to identify them all. Especially since we created them. So what is to be done?
Luckily, it just takes another pair of eyes to see the fallacies that drive us towards perfectly stupid mistakes. I love creating music and I have a small home studio. I have learned that when I work hard on a song for too long it begins to sound great—the only problem is that it sounds great only to me. The next day when I cue it up and hit play, crap comes out of the speakers.
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What? I can hear you exclaiming. To understand men you need to know that men don’t have the ability to share their emotions the way woman do and thus they can’t recover from emotional trauma as effectively as a woman. This results in, most men shutting down from as a protective measure. When a men have suffered deep emotional trauma and then hear words to the effect that “he should just let his feelings out,” or that he should “share” his feeling more, he feels that if he lets his feelings out, he will be judged as less of a man, or in some cases he won’t be able to control them.
Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. 
of his phrases and words then use them later on in the conversation. You need to copy him fairly soon after he has completed an action or said a phrase or else it won’t sync in his subconscious, but you can be too obvious. All of this copying won’t do you any good if there isn’t a core of similarity in your natures. If you are from totally different backgrounds and have totally different values then give it up right away. You don’t have to be carbon copies of each other, that would be a big drag, but you need to share similar values and at least a few similar interests, but each from your own perspective. If you have similar values both in the physical realm and in the spiritual realm and have at least a few joint interests, then this copying technique might be just the ticket to start a relationship There are powerful and easy to use ways to attract any man and as I promised 
If you trigger a guy’s pleasure hormones, he will obsessively desire you. He can’t help it. He will only desire you, no other women will do and it is really simple to do. In a minute I will show you how but first let me explain what pleasure hormones are.
