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Can You Really Make Him Want You?

Can you really make him want you or is that just a pipe dream cooked up by people who want to sell how-to books?

Would you like to know how to make a guy want you?I mean just you.  Would you like him to desire you so much he’d move heaven and earth just to have you?  Are you ready for a deeper relationship with him than you could ever have imagined?


You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want.

—Zig Ziglar


The fact is, most of us do not get what we desire in life because we try to hard to get it, or we try the wrong way. Most women who want to get a man to love them deeply go about it the wrong way.  When a woman learns to focus on his feelings, experiences, ambitions and thoughts instead of her wants, worries and fears then magic happens.

She can create in him a desire so strong that he will do anything to please and keep her.  She will erase the thought of any other woman from his mind and become the center of his attention and relationship.

Choosing Is Everything

We can’t go any further without discussing who you are hoping will want you.  This is a very important factor because if you get this wrong then all of this is a nonstarter.  You need to understand if you have a lot in common with him or not.  I am not  talking about having the same opinions and thoughts as each other since that would be boring.  I am asking, do you come from similar backgrounds and experiences? Are you close to the same age?  Do you hold similar spiritual beliefs? Do you have similar financial goals? Do you vew children in a similar way? All of these factors relate to how much you will be able to relate each other in the long run.

You won’t be able to have long, deep conversations, shared humor, and a lasting relationship if you don’t have a broad base on which to build.  Hot looks only go so far and last only so long.

So, don’t fixate on your own wants, worries and fears since this will effectively render you blind to true love and will never get him to want you.

The Chemistry of Desire

The fact is that most guys are initially attracted to woman physically. This, however, is only the beginning, but since we must always start at the beginning allow me to let you in a few secrets about guys.

Make Him Want YouYou have probably seen pop cultures image of a man as a gland which expresses itself the moment some manufactured, air-brushed, Barbie walks in the door.  It is true that men notice the bomb-shell, but few ever have the courage to talk to her.  She is more of an icon to them than a real person.

What will drive a man to actually approach a woman is far different than what will make him want to poke his buddies and wolf-whistle.

Here are the factors that deeply attract a man.  Self-confidence, a sense of humor, kindness and consideration.  He also will notice clothes that match your body style and that their colors that match your hair and skin.  Don’t wear that little black number if your body doesn’t fit it perfectly.  If you haven’t learned what your colors are, how to choose clothes that compliment you figure and how to choose and apply make-up that enhances your particular features, then do so right away.

It is not a matter of being a fashion model, but of enhancing what you already have.  Men will notice you more when you are genuine, self-confident and comfortable in your own skin than they will an air-brushed super model who is only into herself.

To Make Him Want You Isn’t About Sex

The truth be told, sex is easy to come by in our modern world and trying to use it to make a deep connection with a man won’t work by itself.  If you are merely looking for physical hook-ups then stop reading now.

If you want him to desire you, to want you more than any other woman in the world then you need to ask yourself, What do I bring to the table besides sex? What is it a man wants from a woman more than sex?

The answer turns out to be pretty simple. Men want to matter. Their dirty little secret is that they often feel inadequate and that their existence is pointless, meaningless and insignificant.  Our modern society hates men and constantly mocks masculinity.  Just think about who the buffoon is in most modern comedies and TV commercials.

Starting in kindergarten boys are taught in so many subtle ways that masculinity is bad and being a male is bad.  This results a a lot of men being in crises today and are unable to deal with it.  If you want to really reach a man, then forget what you want from him and spend your effort inspiring him to achieve his “mission” in life and to realize his potential as a man.

Wham! you will have him go mad for you.  You will become his greatest desire in life.  By helping him get what he wants, you will receive ten fold what you want.

Physician, Heal Thyself

Here I must stop and examine a really important truth and that is none of this is possible if you are stuck feeling needy and frustrated with men.

The more you are focused on your own wants and needs the less likely you will ever get what you desire and the less likely he will want you.  Zig Ziglar’s quote at the beginning of this article is true and it may be that you need to take some time out to get yourself together before you seek a lasting relationship.  Sure, there are a lot of twisted, narcissistic men out there, but there are plenty of decent ones too that are looking for the same things you are.  It is just a matter of having the vision to see them.


3 Easy Steps To Make Him Want You Bad

steinInsanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Albert Einstein

Yes, you can get that guy to notice you.  You can stop wondering why he doesn’t desire you.  In fact, you can become quite popular with guys but you have to stop doing what you’ve been doing since it isn’t working.

Look, in a minute, I will show you how you can easily get him to want you bad but first let me explain something.

Make Him Want You Bad by Reinvention

make him want you reinventI want you to restart and reinvent yourself  It is not as hard as you might expect since you can start with how you view yourself.  Just because he doesn’t seem to want you bad, isn’t your fault and you can do some crazy things to change this scenario.

To start making him want you, understand how men think and what they want.  It is much more simple and basic than most women think and once you understand this, you can begin to flip his desire switches one by one.  Women always have more power in relationships than men.

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Men are Hunters by Nature

Ask a trusted friend how they think you act around the guy you would like to want you.  Are you making yourself too available, are you making him feel pursued? As painful as this can be it is important to understand what vibe you give off around the men you are interested in.

Men are the hunters by nature, so when a woman is to much of a hunter a man will feel threatened and run.

On the other hand, if you are coy and play hard-to-get it will awaken the hunter in the man and make him pursue you like crazy.  Its like dangling a feather in front of a cat, they can’t help going after it.  The first step to making him obsess over you is to subtly let him know you are interested and yet remain apparently disinterested in him. THIS WILL DRIVE HIM NUTS.

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Genuinely Admire Him To Get Him To Want You Bad

Men love to be admired whereas women love to be desired.  So if you can make a man feel admired, he will be attracted to you.  The trick is to observe and discover what your man is most proud of and find ways to slip in genuine compliments.

Maybe it is his motorcycle or he may be into rebuilding cars.  Whatever it is find something about it make a genuine compliment about it.  Don’t overdo this.  Scarcity is what makes things valuable so if you drown him in compliments, this whole strategy could backfire.

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Make Him Obsessively Desire You By Being Rare

make him desire you by being rareWhat makes silver so much more precious than chrome?  Think about it, a chrome tea set will never rust or tarnish and it stays shiny with minimum effort, yet it cost a lot less than sliver. Why?

Rarity is the answer.  Sliver is very rare compared to chrome and therefore it commands a much higher price.  This is what you must become to him and hi will desire to have you more than all of the rest of the women in his life.  They may be chrome, but you are silver to him.

I am not talking about letting him see you rarely but about becoming a women that he has rarely seen and experienced.  This will make him need you like he needs to breath.  The thoughts of you will shut out the thoughts of other women and you will become his every thought.

This is not as hard as you might think.  You can see how in this video.

re-framing to make him desire youIn short if you can learn to re-frame yourself in his mind as desirable and give him genuine compliments to stroke his ego, you will find him going mad over you.  Then to really stoke his fire become something rare and precious in his sight.  It is not as hard as you might think.

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Make Him Want You

quote…you want to know how to Make Him Want You?  Then understand that he is lying to you…closequote

make him love youHE IS LYING TO YOU, in fact every guy you have ever dated has been lying to you and if you ever want to make him want you, then you need to know the truth.  The truth that he has lied to you about

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Make Him Want You Immediately

Modern culture portrays men as tongue dragging, bumbling idiots every time a pretty skirt walks by.  While it is true that men are visual what they really want, they will never tell you and appearance alone is not what will make him want you over the long haul.

Men are afraid that if they reveal to much of themselves they will let people down and they are afraid to be honest with women about the way they really feel and think.  In fact these lies work against men because women never really know how to make men want them because of it.

If you want a guy to want you immediately then you need to break through his lies to the truth.  In a secret survey men revealed the truth about themselves, their wants and what would make him want you.

Make Him Want You Beyond Your Appearance

While appearances  may be a great bait and hook, his desire for you will not last long if there is nothing behind the looks to stoke the flames and the biggest single way to get his fires burning and make him want you so bad it hurts is to make him feel good.

But if you have no idea of the way he really feels and what his true desires are or what his worst fears are then you can’t begin to create desire in him for you since you are aiming at the wrong target.

“Babay Im-a want you”

If you can make a man feel good about himself then you will make him want you because every man wants things that makes him feel good about himself.  It isn’t really that hard once you know the truth about what would make him feel good, otherwise you are following lies about what makes him tick.

The more you listen to a man the more he will reveal to you what he is passionate about and what he loves but he will rarely reveal this directly and it can take patients and time unless you have an inside source.

Once you have identified what his passions and loves are then look for simple ways to compliment him on those things.  Maybe it is as simple as his car, or his athletic ability, whatever it is just notice it and give him genuine compliments.

Being genuine is important, so if he really loves his Harley, then look at it yourself and see what you like about it.  Then tell him.

When used correctly, compliments  have 10 times more power than nagging and criticism.

Feeling Good about You

Don’t let you physical appearance lag no matter how long you have been with him this will go a long way to make him want you.  When you care about your appearance it makes him feel good about you.

Another way to make him feel good about you is for you to learn how men communicate.  They do not understand the hints and body language you and your girlfriends use to communicate with each other.  They are straight forward creatures.  Let them know in plain English what makes you happy.  Trust me, they will respond because every man wants to please his women.

If a man can please his woman, he will feel good about her.  Never use sighs, eye rolling, or nagging to try to communicate to him that he is not meeting your needs.  If you are feeling resentful because he is not helping enough around the house, your resentment probably springs from the fact that his actions are telling your that he doesn’t care about you.

In this case you should just talk with him and say something along the lines of, “Hey Honey, do you know what would make me feel so loved and happy?  It would be if you could do the dishes each evening and pick up around the living room.”  Notice that you are giving him something concrete to do and not just a general, “Won’t you help me around the house more.”

When he does these things be sure to let him know how happy it makes you.  Even though it is a temptation to want him to want to do things for you, don’t assume he has a clue as to what you really want.  That is why he lies about his feelings and desires.

I Want To Be a Macho Man

Every man wants room for a little machismo in his life.  We live in a society where everything male is looked down on or at least dismissed as silly or insignificant.  If you allow for your man to do some man things it will make him want you all the more.

One of the things my wife learned was that men speak in conclusions whereas women talk through their thought processes.  When she realized this she backed off when I wanted to mull things over.  This was such a relief to me and made her all the more sexy to me.

So if you want to make him desire you, you need to make him feel good.  Make him feel good about himself.  Make him feel good about about you and make him feel good about his male identity.

The fastest way to make him want you is to know the truths about how he feels and what he wants, but he isn’t going to tell you.  You need to find out WHY HE LIES!

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How To Make Him Obsess About You

Make Him Obsess About You

make him desire youWouldn’t it be great if he was really into you instead of just being your friend? Wouldn’t it be great if you could get him to obsess over you? Well, you can if you know how to speak his language.

Not only are there different love languages, but there is also a separate language for guys. Men and women speak different emotional languages and this can be the key to get him or any guy to obsess over you.

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Someone once compare guys emotions to 3 paint samples whereas a woman’s emotions were the entire collection of Benjamin Moore’s paint chip wall. The mistake most women make is thinking that their his emotions are like theirs.

Ladies, most guys are pretty simple, straight-forward creatures and trying to communicate with them the way you do with other women will only confuse the heck out of them and make them obsess about getting away from you.

Make Him Obsess About You By Not Reading Way Too Much Into What He Says And Does

When guys say something or do something it is pretty much exactly what they meant to say or do. For instance, never try to communicate with a guy by giving him a look. He won’t have any idea what you are doing and don’t try to interpret his looks to mean anything other than what they are.

Make him obsess about you by understanding him, his desires, and then give him just enough to wet his appetite. Keep a little bit of mystery about you and never give him everything at once or pursue him.

The trick is to use what you know to get him to pursue you. As you speak his language and show him the possibilities of what could be, you will make him obsess over you and want you with all of his heart.

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