Don’t Do This If You Want Him To Desire You
You may think that fate holds the key to your romantic future and that there is nothing much you can do to make someone desire you. Well, you couldn’t be more wrong. Getting any man to want you is a pretty simple trick once you understand how men think and communicate. They are much simpler creatures than you could imagine.
They do not have the complex emotional levels or communication modes that women do and this is where many women make a huge mistake.
Make Him Want You NOT Remake Him.
When women think that men communicate the way they do and have the same spectrum of emotions they read things into what men say and do that just isn’t there. If you want a man to desire you, to really obsess about you then you need to stop reading things into what they say and do.
Men, generally, are pretty straight forward creatures, so getting them to desire you is as simple as making them feel good about themselves. Men feel good about themselves when they feel a women admires them and that they can take care of them in one way or another.
We are not talking a fakey, eyelash-batting act, but find real things in your life that you appreciate his help and care. The let him know.
Just The Fact’s Ma’am
Women often want men to want to do things for them and they read into a man’s inattention a lack of desire for them when simply telling a man what pleases you and what you desire will get you the results you want.
For instance, you might like it when a man notices your hair cut. Women will notice a couple inches cut off your hair, most men won’t. Instead of feeling bad about him not noticing, tell him you got a haircut and ask him how it looks.
Then let him know how good it makes you feel when he says he loves it. The bottom line is to understand how men think. Be direct with them in what they can do to make you feel desired.
Never assume that they communicate and think the same way your girlfriends do.
About The Author
Paul is a free lance writer and author who loves the study of relationships. You can learn how to make any man desire you visit Make Him Desire You.
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