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Men Want Women So Become A Women Men Desire

The right attitude and appearance are the two biggest components of women men desire. In fact, your attitude and appearance are your calling cards for any guy you meet.

Your appearance is the first thing he will notice simply because men are visual and men want women who care about the way they look. Then your attitude is what will keep making him desire you far beyond your initial meeting.

“I saw her across the room and wow… I knew I had to meet her.”

Make him desire you by your looks

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Okay, so I know it may sound cheap. But facts are facts and men are visual by nature. At this point you may throw up your hands and say, “yeah I know, men are so shallow,” but hold on a second. A woman’s appearance may attract man at first, in fact, it may turn him on but it will not keep him desiring you. If you want a guy to want you again and again, you must also have the right attitude.

Use your appearance to get him interested.

man desires womanYou’ve seen the old Warner Bros. cartoons where the beautiful woman walks in the door and the wolf ‘s mouth drops open and his tongue rolls out across the floor. While that may be a bit over dramatic, it does illustrate a man’s visual reaction to a lovely looking woman.

Take a good look at what you’ve got. What are your physical assets. You don’t have to be a Hollywood starlet in order to attract men. In order to get him interested in you, you may only have to spruce up what you’ve already got.  Knowing what physical attributes a guy is attracted to is a big help.

In general, men are attracted to women who are concerned about their own appearance. You can make any guy desire you more by the way you dress, apply your make up and comport yourself.

There is an old saying in business that goes something like this: dress for the job you want, not the job you have. The same goes for attracting any man you want. Dress for the man you want to desire you and not just for yourself.

In other words, if you dress like a biker chick you will probably attract bikers whereas if you dress like a successful woman you will likely attract successful man.

Attitude Makes You A Desirable Woman

insecure womanIf you believed pop cultural stereotypes, you’d believe that all men are dreaming of having a supermodel but according to several top surveys of over 1000 men, it turns out that this is a myth.

The vast majority of men want a sweet women who is compatible with them.  Yea, I know, it is not that much different than what women want in a mate.  As I said before, men and women want the same thing, just not in the same order.

What would you think that the number one attribute is that men are looking for in a woman’s attitude? Again, if you believe the pop culture tripe that  our media pushes on us everyday, it would be sexiness, hot looks, etc.  BUT it is not.

The number one thing in the survey was CONFIDENCE!  That’s right, men want a confident mate.  When you think of it, this makes sense.  No one want’s to spend time with a anyone of any sex who is insecure and whiny.

…And What Would You Believe The Second Attribute Was?

Even the second attribute is way off from pop culture stereotypes.  The next thing on anot dumb please man’s wish list for a women they would desire is intelligence.

Again, this makes sense on a biological level as well as a practical level.  If a man desires a less than intelligent woman, this simply reveals his own insecurity.

A strong confident man needs a strong confident woman to be with.

Other attributes of a desirable woman

The list of attributes is pretty surprising when contrasted with what we are told everyday by our media.  Some of the other attributes that made the top 10 were…

  • unmaterialistic
  • spontaneity
  • Laid-Back
  • Playfulness
  • Honesty
  • Independence
  • Supportive

It is funny that the only thing the only mention of an attribute that had anything to do with physical attraction was sensuality.

In the end, if you want to stop wishing and start having the guy you want.  You need to learn how to cultivate these types of attributes and show them off.

In short you need to learn how to make him desire you. 

Women Men Desire: How To Make A Guy Desire You, Keep Him Interested In You

How To Make A Guy Desire You

Okay, so you want someone to desire you or maybe youmake-a-aguy-desire-you-image want to make him desire you again.  Welcome to the club and while it may seem mysterious, it isn’t really that hard to become a women men desire, if you are willing to put some effort into it.

First of all you need to understand your own personality type.  Are you out going or are you an introvert.  Can you talk to strangers easily or are you on the shy side.

Be honest, because you can use each of these personalities to make someone desire you and keep them interested in you.

What Men Desire In Women

To become a women that men desire you must first understand what men desire in the opposite sex and then how your personality type can best be exploited to your advantage.

Men and women, basically desire the same things in a relationship only the priorities of these things are in different orders.  For instance, a man is visual by nature and can be turned on sexually in a instant, whereas most women need to feel loved and secure first, before they become aroused.

Both genders want emotional and physical intimacy, but in different orders.  So when you set out to get a man to want you, you need to become a women that that man would want.

What Men Really Want

Contrary to popular belief men do not want sexually promiscuous mates.  Sure, they may enjoy them as a side dish, but they never seek them for long-term relationships.

Men want women with a little mystery to them, they want a women who doesn’t give it all away.  To make him want you, you will have to learn how to be coy.  Look it up.

Men Want Women With A Little Vulnerability

Remember women want to be desired, but men want to be admired.  If you want him to want you, you need to give him room to be your hero and you need to make it as genuine as possible.

If you admire a man often, he will desire you deeply.  Find out what he is proud of and stroke his ego now and then.

Men Want An Intelligent Woman

If the man you want to desire you doesn’t want an intelligent woman, then be an intelligent woman and drop him quickly.

A secure man, loves to have a woman who he can converse with.  One who understands him and can partner with him.  In the end, if you play dumb to impress a man, your relationship with his will be short lived.

So, learn to understand your personality, use it to your advantage.  Don’t give everything away to a man.  Keep a little mystery.

Admire your man often and the guy will desire you and keep interested in you.  If he is an ex, this is how to make him desire you again.


Christian Walker is a free-lance writer and researcher.  If you want to learn more about making a man desire you read the review of Alex Carter’s Book Make Him Desire You