How To Make A Guy Desire You
Okay, so you want someone to desire you or maybe you want to make him desire you again. Welcome to the club and while it may seem mysterious, it isn’t really that hard to become a women men desire, if you are willing to put some effort into it.
First of all you need to understand your own personality type. Are you out going or are you an introvert. Can you talk to strangers easily or are you on the shy side.
Be honest, because you can use each of these personalities to make someone desire you and keep them interested in you.
What Men Desire In Women
To become a women that men desire you must first understand what men desire in the opposite sex and then how your personality type can best be exploited to your advantage.
Men and women, basically desire the same things in a relationship only the priorities of these things are in different orders. For instance, a man is visual by nature and can be turned on sexually in a instant, whereas most women need to feel loved and secure first, before they become aroused.
Both genders want emotional and physical intimacy, but in different orders. So when you set out to get a man to want you, you need to become a women that that man would want.
What Men Really Want
Contrary to popular belief men do not want sexually promiscuous mates. Sure, they may enjoy them as a side dish, but they never seek them for long-term relationships.
Men want women with a little mystery to them, they want a women who doesn’t give it all away. To make him want you, you will have to learn how to be coy. Look it up.
Men Want Women With A Little Vulnerability
Remember women want to be desired, but men want to be admired. If you want him to want you, you need to give him room to be your hero and you need to make it as genuine as possible.
If you admire a man often, he will desire you deeply. Find out what he is proud of and stroke his ego now and then.
Men Want An Intelligent Woman
If the man you want to desire you doesn’t want an intelligent woman, then be an intelligent woman and drop him quickly.
A secure man, loves to have a woman who he can converse with. One who understands him and can partner with him. In the end, if you play dumb to impress a man, your relationship with his will be short lived.
So, learn to understand your personality, use it to your advantage. Don’t give everything away to a man. Keep a little mystery.
Admire your man often and the guy will desire you and keep interested in you. If he is an ex, this is how to make him desire you again.
Christian Walker is a free-lance writer and researcher. If you want to learn more about making a man desire you read the review of Alex Carter’s Book Make Him Desire You