Make Yourself Desirable
Too many women just sigh and shrug their shoulders when they try but fail to attract the man they want.. They think they can do nothing about getting in him to desire them, that is it beyond their powers and in the hands of fate..
But, hold the fort! Have you ever thought that maybe you can make yourself more desirable? Not to be too crass, but have you ever thought about selling something. If you take that thing, clean it up, maybe paint it and polish it, you make it more desirable and you get a higher price for it.
Don’t misunderstand me, I’m not suggesting that you need any painting or polishing. What I am suggesting, is that you can make yourself more desirable to him, if you understand his wants and desires.
Massage His Ego a Bit
In general, the things men desire are ego gratifying experiences. In other words, he likes to have his ego stroked. So if you are the type that is always talking about yourself and your interests, you might try to notice the things he’s interested in and talk about them a bit more.
For instance, if he’s really into Harley Davidson motorcycles, you might notice his motorcycle and how shiny and clean it is. Make sure you genuinely compliment him on it. This will make you more desirable to him immediately. Men are simple that way. Don’t try to over analyze them and don’t think that they think like women do.
Men Want To Be Admired
Remember, we are speaking in generalities here and not specifics. In general, women want to be desired, whereas, men want to be admired. The more you can admire a man or at least making feel admired the more desirable you will be to him. With a little thought and some action you’ll be surprised at how fast you can make a man desire you.
The key here, is to be genuine. Men can spot flattery from a mile away. Make sure the things you complimented him on are things that you really admire about him.
Another thing that will make most men feel admired is if their women need them. Now before we go too far, we are not talking about being a needy woman! If a man feels you’re needy, all is lost.
What we are talking about here, is genuine need. Perhaps it is a need for security or maybe a need for fixing things around the house. In any case, make sure it is a real need and make sure you tell him how much you admire him for it. This will get him burning with desire for you.
Maintain Your Independence
Now let me clarify things a bit. Be a strong, independent woman but allow him to help you where you need help. That is the secret.
Remember, these are general principles and there is a lot of specific things that we don’t have room to discuss here. The bottom line is, you have the power to make yourself desirable to almost any Man you wish. All you have to do is learn how.